pansexual polyamorous feminist sapiosexual pun-loving bibliophile romantic nonmonogamous pleasure slut in late 50s. i am in a passionate and loving open marriage. a near death health crisis in 2009 made me truly understand how short life is. recently diagnosed with diabetes, i am still a foodie, and figuring that out. i'm also a music addict with many playlists on spotify. i am antiracist and pro social justice. i am grateful to be alive. i am triple vaxed and believe in protecting loved ones and others from Covid 19 by wearing masks and all the other Covid protections that should still be in place. i'm a lefty through and through. i love abstract art. i love tea, especially lapsang souchong. i love long walks. i live in the city and i don't own a car. i'd prefer to meet fellow urbanites who like cafes and wandering about. i seek whimsy, exploration and connection with kindred misfits.