Pam, 46 widowed here. I lost my husband to COVID about a year or so ago. Before that, we were swingers for 5 years. When we were swingers I was always the sub, I would do as I was told but now I find I like to be the one in control. In the last couple of months, I have started to hook up with some of the people me and my husband would swing with and I have found some new people also. I am not looking for real meets or phone or cam just subs for roleplay. If you are interested PM me with your name and age. I prefer PM's to chat in the room. If you PM me without sending your name and age I will know you have not read my profile. I will ask you if you have read my profile and I will ask you to do as it says. If your next message is not your name and age I will block you. Men and women both are welcome to PM me. Please have a profile pic, I don't have one on my profile but I have a few(non-nudes)if you ask for one. I always check profiles and if yours is empty or your age doesn't match what you PM me I block you. I also do not chat with people where it says their age is 100 or 150. And guys if your ID has words like BIG or HUGE or LONG or anything like that in it DON'T PM I won't answer and will ignore you unless you are a sub. If you PM me and I don't respond I am not ignoring you I am just busy with another chatter. If that happens just send me a friend request and I will accept.