I can not understand why people join an adult related site & post a facial picture that is blurred or the eyes are masked so that you can not make out what they look like.
Hiya. I thought maybe I could offer a little insight into this. We all proceed on different levels. Personally, I don't feel comfortable showing my face to everyone, especially to those that I don't click with.
For some, sharing their face on a site full of strangers is scary. Your face is the connection between here and your personal life and if you are new to this that is a scary leap to take.
On sites such as this, it is important that we all feel comfortable and move in a way that makes us feel safe. For you and many others, it may not be a big deal, but not everyone is where you are yet and that's okay. You have every right to avoid those that do not openly share their faces, but you might be missing out on some wonderful connections.
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Remember everyone, have fun, be respectful, and be safe!
I would like to agree with you Molly, it can be asscary place and my deeling is that there are confidence issues involved.
I won't normally post facial pictures on any sites I frequent mostly because I would be mortified if anyone outside of those sites, ie friends or family, recognised me. A site like this is for many, me included, a very private place for fantasy as well as fact. People post stories, sometrue and some fiction.
I applaude those who feel confident and open about thier sexuality to be comfortable posting face pictures, it is just not for me , and many other too I suspect.
Personally, I like to see some sort of picture of a member as that can give so much about a person. Honestly, just a shot of someone's genitals (male or female) doesn't do much for me but it is possible to give subtle hints about oneself that can tell other members a bit more than just a few lines in a profile.
I would urge people to get involved. I love that there is now a site for bi people, it must be a first so let's ce;ebrate what we have and enjoy it all.